I have never seen a wolf. Not in the wild. My dad did. Once. Up north, as they say, in the boundary waters. We kids were all asleep in the tent when he woke to cook trout caught the night before. And to smoke cigarettes. Just him and the rocks and an early morning mist. The sun just coming up when a deer swam across the lake. He went for a camera. Took a picture then put the camera down. The deer was almost to the opposite shore now – not much of a picture. That’s when the wolf showed up. Slipped quietly into the water and swam after the deer. Then they all disappeared into the pines and what happened next he couldn’t see.
Us kids woke up later and ate the fish and my dad said he saw a wolf and weeks later we saw the picture of the deer swimming and the early morning light. There were other pictures too. Of silvery canoes and green canvas tents and kids jumping off rocks into water.
Now it is many years later and we don’t have a destination or much of a plan when we head north. Three of us go. My sister, young son and myself. We go to the big lake and watch ships sail from open water to loading dock. It starts to rain heavy so we go eat walleye and after, walk out to the end of a pier where there is a lighthouse and across the way, a lift bridge. When the rain stops, a rainbow shows, and the bridge goes up, seemingly all at once.
In the morning the sun is shining. We go to the beach across the street. Up and over a fence and down concrete stairs, holding coffee and donuts. The beach is long and vast here and you can see the city and houses and the lake like an ocean stretches before us. Later we drive to an even bigger beach. Years ago, we were here with my sister’s sons and her husband. I had no husband or son but our dad was very much alive. It’s nearly three months now since he died.
We walk along the beach to another pier and watch more ships. Watch clouds and make up stories about what they are and do. My sister says one looks like a uterus and my son asks what is a uterus and we laugh but don’t explain. We go driving and my son says uterus, uterus, uterus over and over, laughing from the backseat. I see a grave in the trees alongside the road with feathers and beads so I slow and it is near dusk and my sister says no don’t stop, its bad luck so we roll the windows up and go find a motel where they let us swim until midnight.
The next day we buy smoked fish and find another pier and light house and take more pictures. We have a picnic and skip stones and then eat pie. We buy a pie for my mom to bring back home with us – all lemony and full of meringue. We bring smoked fish too, as if we could bring the whole north shore to her, as if this will help somehow. Her grief is big in her, and makes her sick and sometimes she talks of it and it scares us. Grief – it is big in us too but words are hard so we go to the beach, we go to the lake that is vast and big as an ocean, deep as love, hoping there is something we can glimpse of him, there in the rocks, the rain, the lake shore. Something before he slips away like the wolf, like the deer, gone to the pines, there in the forest. Lost to us forever.
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Bittersweet, beautiful memories. This brought back a few of my own memories of summer on the shore of this same haunting lake.Thank you.
Thanks ! It is a great area with lots of memories. Sometimes I wish I had ended up there but I drifted away and never really made it back.
This is such beautiful, haunting writing with its opening that hints of tragedy and the litany of activities that seem to be filling a void, then the sweet and sad sentences about your mom’s grief and finally your dad’s death and the loss you all feel so strongly. It is a post worth reading and rereading, which I will do. I am always so happy when I click on your blog and see a new post from you. Thank you.
Thank you so much I’m glad you click too – your comments are very inspiring and helpful.
I found your blog via https://auntbeulahblog.wordpress.com/ and was intrigued with your choice of name. One single read of this post and I am sitting here all choked up and a fan for life.
I am sorry for your loss. I know grief for a loved one is like a perpetual ache that only softens over time. I felt it all over again reading this.
thank you and thank you again !
Your writing is beautiful. Trying to get in touch with you to ask if you would like to submit a piece to Mothers Always Write. We would love to feature your writing on our mag!
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Thank you so much. Yes – I would like to submit a piece. Did you have something specific in mind ? I will visit your website and check your guidelines